Cause we are the BEST Around

A new Do

2012-02-13T18:29:00.000-08:00

When there is a big change in my life such as a new job, break up or new relationship, weight loss or birthing of a child I have cut, color or changed my hair. I think this is a way of reinventing myself. As a new change as has been made in my life I wonder what will my new do look like. Purple highlights, pink highlights or an erray of colors streaked through my hair. Definitely something bright and cheerful. for I am not going to mourn the loss of motherhood but embrace the opportunity I had and will always have to be a part in a childs life. I have two beautiful children, many nieces and nephews, tons of friends and their children and years of callings where I will be able to serve the Lord's children. When I was feeling down and had thoughts of dissappointment I was reminded of the Atonement and how my Savior understands every ounce of pain and loss I feel. He understands my emotion and suffered so I don't have to punish myself or place blame. I know my Heavenly FAther is aware of my needs. I know he hears my prayers and does not forget me. I have felt so much of his love through the compassion and service of my family and friends these few weeks. I am reminded daily how much I am loved. My Challenges and experiences have only strengthened my testimony, humbled my heart and made me so thankful for the gospel.If I just stop and look around for a second I realize he has given me all that I need to be happy. I don't need a million dollar home with empty rooms.I need a modest home filled with joy and laughter. I don't need a hefty job title and income to define our success. I just need a weekly allowance to Target and a husband who will provide for his family with an honest heart and with good work ethics. I don't need somebody else's image of a perfect body. I just need to be healthy and remind myself- I am not as good as I once was but I was good once as I ever was.And that was pretty dang cute. I don't need to be in a high calling. I just need to do my calling and give all that I am asked. I don't need to be a super mom but I want my kids to think I am super cool. I don't need a black amex card to flash around. I do need to have a valid temple recommend and be worthy to enter the Temple. I don't need to keep writing ..I am just going to go and live and enjoy everything i have. Love you family and friends.

Dorian in Cali

2011-08-24T17:54:00.000-07:00

Dorian's window seat shot.dorians plane video

Dorian and his friends.

picture with his TT who was waiting for him at the gate

His Ry Ry

He loves his cousinsDorian getting his cousin to make sounds

& his Jordy

So Dorian went to Cali to visit his TT & her girls. He went last year for 2 weeks but this year he flew alone and stayed longer. He did great. Here are some videos he took with his new ITouch...they are hilarious. It sums up Dorian's personality mingled with technology.

Chicago

2011-08-24T17:09:00.000-07:00

You know when you have an idea of what something should be like and then reality sets in...well it happens to me more than not. For Ex: our honeymoon. I picture Hawaii so different in my head and then I get there..it so happened to be right after a fire and everything was closed so early(Maui) but never the less it was memorable. Well I have always wanted to live in the City so Ry had to travel to Chicago and so we thought we would ride the train in to visit him and see the sites.
Dream: ride on the train quick and easy Reality: delayed at the train station for 5 hours, trains are down so we have to ride a bus. But it was memorable

Cali got the whole front seat to herself and I let her eat Cheetos. She talked all 5 hours.

After all the talking she crashes when Ry picks us up.

One thing that was so great was seeing Ry during daylight...'ry usually comes home when its dark at home but in Chicago he was off by 5-6 and we got to see him so we planned to go pottery painting together for FHE.

Cali and Daddy painting her Cali girl cup.

Another day went went to the riverwalk in Naperville. They had a little story time performance which was pretty funny.

Cali getting into the fountain. Everyone was doing it so she wasn't white trash.

Another day went to the beach. Funny cause all the building are right there..city..beach.

Cali loved riding the trains in Chicago. She says the green one was dirty...this lead to a not so good part of town..we missed the connecting train.Don't do the green line.

Cali on her way to see Pinkalicious..Which was so cute!!!

She was so excited to see her then freaked out once she met her. After the play we ate at the Hancock building Signature Room. Then off to Sprinkles to eat her pink cupcake like Pinkalicious

My friend Abby and her daughter Haley came up to Chicago. We ate cupcakes at Sprinkles, went to Millineium Park and braved the 110 degree weather. We had some great Chicago style pizza and got to visit. I so want to go back except with no kids..it was alot of walking , lots of heat, and lots of people. Dream: live in the city Reality: love my suburban life. I was so happy that week. I got to spend so much time with Ry and Cali and see my friend. Can't wait for a girls weekend.

Honesty.

2011-04-15T07:14:00.000-07:00

My friend and I were talking the other day. I sent her this link about job interviews and questions you might get asked. As we went through these questions we laughed and thought how great it would be to actually tell how you feel when asked these questions. The truth shall set you free. Now days the truth will get you fired, demoted, not hired, slapped, persecuted and denied. At home kids lie in fear of disappointment. Those same kids grow up, go to college cheat on exams and group projects, then go to the work field and lie again so their employer isn't disappointed in them. They are so afraid of failure that they avoid trying just to get some recognition.
We had a lesson about this on Sunday. We talked about Honesty. We did tease if a woman ask: Do I look fat in this and a husband says no, is he being honest. Okay okay so you might want to be impolite but point out the positive. Win win.
So many women gave stories and examples of their belief in honesty. I went home and pondered this: Honesty to me is living in truth in all you do and say. Not comprising your values for personal gain or others success.
This includes telling the whole story, completing your task, and being honest with yourself.
I find people justify the truth by not completing the whole task. They complete the part that will quickly benefit them and leave the rest for someone else to handle. They will omit information and supplement other false information for gain. Waiting to see if anyone noticed. ....When looking at the big -picture it can go undetected. But for those picking up the aftermath it becomes quite clear as to how this gets achieved. Here is the cross road. Do you go down that crooked road or do you stay on the straight and narrow. You may have to take a few steps back at times and your advancement is walked with baby steps but at least you know where the light at the end of the road is coming from. Light of Christ can never be mistaken and I am thankful that my family and friends take that road. I am so impressed with their honest behavior in all they do. They don't compromise their values just to get ahead. If they try and stumble they dust themselves off and try again. Failure to me is never trying to do your best.
So if honesty gets you fired or persecuted and occasionally denied it will be okay. Cause when you fall just reach out your hand and he will be there helping you up and guiding you to another opportunity.

A little Get aWay....

2011-04-11T06:43:00.000-07:00

Ry was called to work in Cali for two weeks so we decided I would head up with the kids and visit. WE have missed everyone terribly. Melinda offered to take the kids for a few days so Ry and I could have some alone time. It fit perfect with his schedule since Ry had to drive up to San Luis Obispo for a few days. Tyler drove me up to meet Ry and we drove the rest of the way together. We stopped at the beach and visited a few places. It was nice to talk and just hold his hand. Its been pretty stressful around here and it was such a nice way clear our heads and focus on how to work through this. I got to spend time alone while Ryan worked and then we got to go on dates..yeah Date(s). The waiter did hit on Ry which made for a fun story and Ry was so happy all weekend. HEre are a few pics from our trip.

MIssion Inn Santa Barbara

I asked Ry to get a pic of us and he doesn't look at the camera and makes a duh face. love him

And I take the picture...at least I make him looking away look better.

Adding more pics just waiting for upload so return

i'VE never seen a pigeon upclose. For being such a dirty bird they are really pretty

Ry is thinking up a plan....

His plan..to scare them

My plan..to have them retaliate and poop on his head.

There was a little child one I wanted him to do but he wouldn't.

Christmas Time

2011-01-02T20:04:00.000-08:00

We got our White Christmas the Night before Christmas......

Christmas Eve Ryan and the kids built the base to the biggest snowman in our City.

Christmas Morning the kids open their stockings first. Cali and her bandaids.Yes that is cereal in the back. Ryan's family tradition each kid gets their own box of cereal and they don't have to share.

Dorian's favorite stocking gift. 4 flash lights. Head lamp, pen light, flash light and a laser light. He had to have them going all at once.

The mess.

The finish product. Huge snowman.

This Christmas was our first on our own. We have always shared this Holiday with family but this year just wasn't possible. We missed everyone terribly, but made some fun new memories. Sunday we took food and presents over to a family in the stake and visited with them. It was a special evening, the kids played with their children and we talked to couple. We were so touched by how humble they were and the love they have for each other. WE asked them how long they have lived here and they explained they had moved here from the Dominican Republic and have lived here for 9 years. We asked if his family was here and he said yes and that his dad worked near by. He said he works for a company called BW. I laughed and said my husband works for/at BW. He didn't believe us then Ry confirmed it. It was like we were suppose to visit them. Small world. MOnday we had our first book of the holiday. Grinch Stole Christmas(KImmy & Spencer) along w/ the Grinch and Max stuff animals. The kids loved it. Tuesday- we went to the lights at the Temple and walked around, drank hot chocolate and talked about Jesus.Then the kids came home and we read The Pirates night before Christmas( TT gave them w/Pirate figurines) Wednesday- We went to Ward Christmas Party_AwESOME job Mark Harris and crew did. Thursday we read Its Christmas David and the kids got to open their jammies(Nana & Papa). Friday the kids played in the now and we read The Christmas Story from the Scriptures. Saturday morning the kids opened presents and then they read their last book. A Dinosaur Night before Christmas. After the read the book and sang Dinosaur Christmas Songs I made them Dinosaur Pancakes. We enjoyed the day as a family. Christmas is the best Holiday. The Savior, family,friends and good food.

Dorian Strings class

2011-01-02T18:04:00.000-08:00

When I had a meeting with Dorian's teachers a while back I learned he does pretty well with Strings Class. I laughed when the report read -ON pitch. I then learned he had a Strings Concert so I was so excited to hear him perform. At one time the kids did an exercise about rhythm where they snapped and clapped...anyhow Cali said out loud "this is stupid" I now realize I say that a lot. The lady in front of us turned around laughed and said I got that on video. I am very proud of him. He actually stayed on pitch and followed directions. Here are some pics.

Baby Blues

2010-10-22T09:50:00.000-07:00

I don't like to complain that much about our trials with having another baby because I know there are lots of people that can't have children and we have already been blessed to have two. So complaining seems pretty selfish. I guess just the thought of my control being taken away or making it harder for it to happen saddens me. Some days it doesn't bother me but lately and especially lately it really has occupied my mind. I have tried to change my thoughts but I think back to that day Sept 18th that our trial began. I think of the circumstances and as many people know it was funny in theory but the consequence is quite painful. I know we both pushed it aside with Ryan going to work right after surgery and hoping that it wouldn't effect future children. We were to try for a year and if no success then come in and get tested. Then we find out the possibility is pretty slim with out help and even that is not guaranteed. So we both came to the decision its time to try again. But wait can the STRESS and BuSY schedules be ever more evident during this time? Ah YES. Do I then think that maybe its just not meant for us or maybe its just not the right time? I am a believer that they will come to you when its the right time. It was 6 years between Cali and Dorian so I shouldn't be that shocked since its only been 3 years but when I want a baby it happens with in a month. Now the circumstance for me to get prego is closing. I just feel my options are being taken away. My heart was aching and my feelings were turned to anger to all the individuals who played a part in this, then and now. To the individual who should have thought before he took a swing. For those now who contribute to my husbands stress level and mine. For those Who demand so much with out having a thought of walking in our shoes. Who are quick to blame with out looking at all the circumstances and who expect change in a short time.
So I often tell myself to remember when we went to temple to do sealings for our anniversary and later on that month. I prayed to let this go.Well ... My heart was softened when I was able to seal children to their parents. Family after Family my heart was comforted. A thought came to my mind: If I can't have anymore I can help other children be with their families. I can fulfill my callings and teach the little ones.
I know I am loved and Heavenly Father is aware of my needs I just needed to vent about it so I can remember what I do have and get over this slump.

Sleep

2010-09-29T09:04:00.000-07:00

Every morning I wake up around 4:30 ish. I sit in bed and think of: to do lists, my work, Ry's work, the children, friends and what if's. In all these areas there are issuses. Some I am able to fix and some I have to let take its course. Problem is I am a fighter by nature. I just want to tell those individuals how I really feel about them. I can't stand watching family and friends being hurt, used, manipulated and taken advantage of. I hear things that people say to friends, I hear things people threat to my family and I hear things people assume of me. I know those words aren't directly said to me and can often get lost in translation.So I have to step back and hope for the best. I do know if spoken to me directly in those tones or with those actions it would be hard to get over it so I sympathize with them.I know I have to be the shoulder to cry on and the crutch when support is needed.
I admitt I have been overwhelmed in how to control my thoughts. So lately I have been really praying for those individuals who have hurt me and others I love. I have to think that maybe their hearts will be softened and they will be mindful of their actions. Its taken so much out of me not to call them up or write them a letter. I can see this is my challenge to be forgiving and to forget. People have weaknessess and those can't define someone's true nature. I have to be able to see them through Heavenly Fathers eyes. I have to know that doors will close but others will open. I have to be able to be grateful for all the things I have in my life, so that those small instances seems irreleveant in the grand scheme of things. I may not be strong and forgving like this everyday so bear with me cause I might just might act like Michael from last weeks episode of the Office called Nepotism. MIchael is Dealing with the situation by bending over his nephew and spanking him...this would be great at times.
So I may lash out with words from time to time but I am trying.
So here is to controlled thoughts:
I am alive. I am have a great family, close and afar. I have in laws leaving for their mission in Figi. I have blessed to have work this year. I have a husband who serves and is worthy of his priesthood. I have an autistic child that is progressing every week. I have a daughter who is showing me what true patience is. I have made some really good friends this year. I Have The Gospel.

Around the Horn

2010-08-23T05:03:00.000-07:00

There is a show on ESPN called Around the Horn. It is here a topic is thrown out to a panel of 4 sport journalists. They go round and round until points are racked up for the Final Showdown. Another show, PTI is the same way. Two sports host go at it, expressing their opinions- agree or disagree ...They can still have ways of looking at a situation but respect each other enough to listen and see the other side(well sometimes). I love these shows. I love the idea of what Reali would call a SHOWDOWN, throwing out an idea, saying what you feel and having others come back and respond. I might not agree with what you are saying but I like to listen and respect the opinion of others. When I blog or post here or on FB I take ideas from conversations or news articles and let my mind run wild. Sometimes people are so afraid to say what they believe or feel that they would rather sit back and stay out of it. I recently wrote a post about Trail periods(living together before marriage). I got a few responds and one where we went back and forth. Each ding of a new message sent my blood racing. I felt like Rocky and Apollo..ding ding. Smile and punch. I don't go into with hate, but it does have me step back and really ask myself what is it I believe? I turn to the scriptures and prophets to help me find my words. This helps me build my testimony and I am grateful for those opportunities.
Some are just FACE TIME, personal vents that just help me realize all that I have been blessed with when times get hard.
I appreciate the challenges in life for they have only made me stronger. Now when that bell dings I always know I have him my corner. I may get hit a few times, stumble and even fall to the floor, but he is always there waiting for me, telling me its going to be okay.
Since there isn't a camera here I can't throw my cards at the camera...
So as Kornheiser would say Good Night St. Louis.

Power

2010-08-21T11:08:00.000-07:00

Since before time and until now the struggle for power and Glory has been present. Siblings against siblings, families against families, nations against nations, friends against friends, co-worker against co-worker all seeking power over another. They comprise their beliefs for riches and instant power of authority over another. They engaged in secret combination plotting and devising a way to destroy another. Some are the kings while others are simply the pawns in their game. Pawns see their part as justified not realizing their subtle moves are only fueled by the same greed and selfish desires that their conspiring kings have concealed so well. Soon these pawns are so vital to the game there is no escape. They can either be used, captured or begin their own attack. A strategic play in every day life of cheating & lying, one move at a time closer and closer ..... then CHECKMATE. Another King looking over his success of fallen knights, and wounded rooks....all to be on the other side.
The temptation to seek personal recognition and reward from our service to others is ever-present. The pattern was established in the pre-earth life by Satan himself. There, when the Father explained His plan of salvation for the inhabitants of this earth and the need for a redeemer, Satan responded by saying: “Behold, here am I, send me, I will be thy son, and I will redeem all mankind, that one soul shall not be lost, and surely I will do it; wherefore give me thine honor.” (Moses 4:1.) In contrast, Christ showed us for all time that God’s work is to be done with an attitude of Thine, not mine. Said He: “Father, thy will be done, and the glory be thine forever.” (Moses 4:2.)

Will you engage in the game of Power robbing your souls of the riches of heaven? You always have a choice.

Lean on Me

2010-08-09T22:29:00.000-07:00

I really don't like seeing my husband so stressed out. He is the optimistic one, the outgoing one, the let's get out of the house and doing something one, but lately he has been so overwhelmed with questions of what should be the next step. I can't imagine that kind of stress as the provider and head of the household.Knowing that you are trying to do all that you can and it still isn't enough for others. I know change is scary but it is often change that provides us with better opportunities and more blessings.
I know moving to Missouri and living in Chesterfield was the change we needed. This Change opened the door to many opportunities and has provided a fulfilling and blessed life. I am very grateful for the jobs, callings and friendships that my family has gained here and I hope things don't have to change, but I kind of feel they will.
I can only trust in the Lord and know what ever comes our way it will make us stronger.
Change is inevitable, sometimes it can be controlled, but most of the time it creeps up on our blind spot jumping into our lane causing us to loSe control for a bit.
But we always have our choice when that change comes ...we can close our eyes and panic swerving left to right, or we can open our eyes, stay calm move over and let the Lord in the driver's seat.
So to my husband I leave you with these words to the Song Lean on Me
Sometimes in our lives we all have pain,We all have sorrow
But if we are wise,We know that there's always tomorrow
Lean on me, when you're not strong
And I'll be your friend

I'll help you carry on

For it won't be long

'Til I'm gonna need

Somebody to lean on

Please swallow your pride,If I have things you need to borrow

For no one can fill those of your needs,That you don't let show

If there is a load you have to bear,That you can't carry

I'm right up the road,I'll share your load

If you just call me

So just call on me brother, when you need a hand

We all need somebody to lean on

I just might have a problem that you'd understand

We all need somebody to lean on

Love you

Knock Knock!!!

2010-05-13T07:51:00.000-07:00

Today I got a knock on the door. I wasn't going to answer it cause well I wasn't fully closed and I wasn't expecting anyone. So I looked at the window and saw a familiar vechile. I opened the door and there is Julina with a plate of cheese...Weird you may say..Not AT All! She listened to a woman complaining of how she only looks forward to one day of year at church and that day is Mother's Day. Every year that she has been in the Chesterfield 1st ward, the Relief Society served fruit, dessert, and cheese on Mother's Day. Pepper Jack cheese in little cubes with tooth picks..Don't know why but her favorite. This year it was cheese less...
So today the complaining woman got her Mother's Day cheese. I know it seems so little but I lLOVE It!!! Not only did I get pepper jack I got all sorts of cheese. HOw thoughtful. If JUlina was my husband she would have gotten lucky..Thank you Julina for listening and being so thoughtful.

Gabbing it up with a friend

2010-04-15T14:28:00.000-07:00

So I was talking to my friend today and well I talk to her almost everyday and we share stories. During this course of time I realize what a MEAN GirL I was between the ages of 15-18. I was pretty vengeful. I didn't like anyone hurting me or attempting to put me down or my friends. I waited and got my revenge whether is was the next day or years later. If a girl didn't like you at that age its just jealousy. Whether you dress better, look better, developed better, or got the guy to like you better you were automatically hated. We called the girls snobs, fake, or attention whores. I played the victim and culprit at times. Thank goodness I grew out of that. Can I still say some pretty caddy things from time to time..of course but I don't seek for revenge. I just change my attitude towards the subject and I stop justifing my actions. I try to see all the good qualities they have instead of finding faults that just reflect my own.
So SORRY
to the girl I locked in the bathroom and turned off the light
to the girl who I pushed into the locker
to the teacher I called out with greasy hair
to the teacher whose classroom I helped flood
to the beehives whose air mattress we deflated
to the Leader who was obnoxious enough to wet us in our beds with the super soaker who we then soaked down with water two years later while she was talking during spiritual hour and then wrapped her car so she coudn't get out.
to the girls who I flirted with your boyfriends
to the boy who acted like a jerk and I put butter under your door handle & oreo-d you car
to the boy who I made fun of your sweet letters..I just didn't like sappy
to the boys who I just called to get dinner or movies
to the city where we took all the blinking signs
to the neighbors who lawns we put the opposing candiate sign in their yards.
to the many who I pranked call before caller ID
to the group at EFY that I thought were such nerds and we made fun of.
to the Youth that danced funny at church dances that we made fun of.
Sorry that I wasn't a better example.
So would not want to repeat teenage years.

Mother Hen

2010-03-31T14:40:00.000-07:00

I have delt with alot of little crap heads during my life.Whiney children, obnoxious children, stubborn children. Do I tell the parents that I don't want their kid to come to my class or do I ask them if there is anything I should know on how to discipline them. No, I just deal with them. Do I single them out when there are a hand full of other children doing the same thing. No... Mother hen protecting her baby chick you may say... No. just am over the labels. Baby chick isn't making fun of others, doesn't bully, doesn't intentionally leave people out, doesn't judge, doesn't hate..He choose to come to this earth knowing he would have difficulties. But he faithfully accepted his challenge and he is unable to sometimes control his actions. He loves people and wants attention and he just wants to run around like a kid. Will he run off when he is bored. Yes. Will he struggle to stay focus on a subject that doesn't interest him. Yes, Will he draw back when things get to hard, Yes. But I'd rather have that special spirit then a child who knows better and chooses to be otherwise. Is it so hard to see beyond the disability?

Loving Your Body

2010-02-18T15:56:00.000-08:00

Loving your body- I know such a foreign concept huh? Do we ever just say I love everything about my body? Probably not. I am sure we can find something we want to improve on or change about our bodies. Even little girls are becoming aware of their body image. I am seeing girls younger and younger under go surgeries to enhance their bodies and look older. They don't even give themselves time to develop. And older women are spending thousands to prevent themselves from aging. "I do it for myself not for others"...is the number one response to why they do this. I understand wanting to look sexier, prettier, younger but at what price. Maybe its just age for me but I can realize now that I feel all those things when I love myself inside.

When I occupy my thoughts with service, compassion or my family... I don't feel the need to complain about all the things wrong with myself. Hey I know children can alter your body and areas can become baby- a- fied but there are so many risks and side effects to breast augmentation, face lifts, botox..lipo..etc Don't think I am here to bag on those who do choose to do this, I just have battled it on both sides and come to the conclusion I need to just accept the change. I am getting crows feet despite my lack of smiling. My eyebrows only return to the former location when I put my hair in a tight ponytail. My boobs only look perky when I lift and separate. My stomach doesn't resemble a washboard but more a ski slope with moguels.

Can I treat my body better..Of course. I can be healthy and more conscience of my overall appearance. I just don't want to wake up one day and regret my decision or look in the mirror and forget want I looked liked before. Does that really make you any more happier? Temporarily maybe?

So I end with the words of Toby Keith

I ain't as good as I once was
Thats just the cold hard truth
I still throw a few back, talk a little smack
When I'm feelin bullet proof
So don't double dog dare me now
'Cause I'd have to call your bluff

I ain't as good as I once was
But I'm as good once as I ever was
Maybe not be good as I once was
But I'm as good once as I ever was

word vomit..

2010-02-05T17:30:00.000-08:00

I went looking back at some old high school year books and one comment was written about me over and over. Alma, I Love how you just don't care what other people think, you are never afraid to be you.

For the past 10 years I have been quite selective on some things I say..but this year I started a new challenge for myself and that is not to hold anything in...I have at least 10lbs of stress on me from that.

I first want to say I don't have a lazy husband. He works extremely hard, he fufills his church duties, serves at the temple and makes time for the kids. I know that he has a great work ethic. He doesn't rush through clients just to get numbers in...he gives each client his undivided attention and it shows in his work. Quality Over quantity. He truly cares about those he works for and those who he works with.

I know he stresses to keep everyone happy. He works to provide for us and to give his children a better opportunity..He sacrafices to have Dorian in a great school district. He serves the Lord in every possible way. He serves at the temple not for "the self righteous badge" but becasue he truly loves his Heavenly FAther and Savoir. He Visits others not just to have a check mark by his name each month. He visits because he knows and understands he is his brother's keeper. He will rush out at anytime to help anyone. With that I am thankful that he accquired the manual skills needed to help others. Working with his hands has never been beneath him and I am thankful that he is always willing to try and learn a new trade.

I don't think a man can valued by what he makes. I believe its what he does with what he has. His time, talents and abilities. I get super defensive when someone thinks less of him because of what he makes, or where he lives or their idea of successful. WE always have what we need and he is able to use anything left over for others. That is successful to me.

Over worked and underappreciated is a common feeling we Experience in our lives. I hope we don't let those who work many hours for us and strive to provide us with so much go unappreciated because of our pride and feeling of entitlement.

I love you Ryan and I appreciate all you do.

Ready! Set! Go!

2010-01-24T12:54:00.000-08:00

And the award goes to DORIAN TAIT!

Dorian got 3rd place at the Pine Wood Durby Race for Scouts.

Although it is designed for the father to do most of it; it still was his race to win.

For Dorian's first race it was pretty impressive.

Of course it was an autobot car, the soldier one as Dorian would call it.

It was army green with camo on the sides and orange wheels.

Dorian got a medal and a certificate.

Ry did get teased about it being his car but we all know all the other dad's built their son's car

I just can't help it if my husband did a better job..Hey it was his first year and

we are still learning. I say the fathers should get a car and then the kids make their own car and race against each other. Either way the boys weren't competitve, they just sat, ate ice cream and cheered eachother on.

Thanks, to Bryson Stucki for sharing ideas and tools(Sorry we beat you)

Thanks to Mitch and All theScout Leaders for their time and energy in putting this together.

Thanks to Ryan for supporting Dorian in his Scouts and being a great father.

Sunbeams....awhh the memory

2010-01-18T12:12:00.000-08:00

This year my calling in church is to teach the Sunbeams which are ages 3 turning 4. With a new class comes new personalities and new challenges. Each little one brings something new to the table. But before I journey forward I want to take time to reflect on last year.
Anna, Chase,Darcy, Ella,Emily, Lydia,Mason, Matthew,Tommy and Zoe

Teacher: What is something Heavenly Father gives us?
Class: Family, House, brother, food, toy
...I know(hand raises) He gave me a penis.
What is a penis?(another child asked) Its right here(points to pants)

Teacher: This person's dad is an attorney and he is in charge of lots of people. I wonder who it could be?
Kids look confused.
Teacher: Its your daddy(Telling that child)
Child: My daddy works?

Teacher: Okay we have the Bible...Book of Mormon, Doctrine & Covenants and the
Pearl of Great......(waiting for response)
Child: Great Grandmother

Quotes & Funny moments by the sunbeams:
Okay everybody ShUT UP!
I don't want to be sold.(lesson about Joseph)
I am cute and really smart.
My mom and dad have special time.
I am not wearing underwear.
I pooped today.
Kid getting their head stuck in the chair.

One tops everything. It is when I taught the Sunbeams in CA.
While waiting for the bishop to set apart his mom, the little boy had to pee, so I told his mom I would take him so she could go right in.
We go into the bathroom and he comes out crying. What's wrong I ask, tears all down his face...I peed on my...
What? I peed on my face. HOw did you pee on your face hunny?(so they were not tears on his face) I was trying to get my pants down and I could not get my pants down fast enough.
Well he tried to pee and is thing was up caught in his pants so when he peed it shot straight up..
I couldn't stop laughing.

Playroom

2009-12-29T17:20:00.000-08:00

So here are some quick sloppy photos of the playroom. I have been meaning to post then I got down there and the kids have messed it up so finally here it is. Its a start. Lots of fun projects ahead.

HOme for the HOlidays Part 2

2009-12-26T10:03:00.000-08:00

So on Christmas Eve I read another story from a book that we received from our friend Laurie LeDuc called God Bless Your Way. We actually had read this book a few years ago for YW. THey gave the girls blankets and a loaf of bread. I read the story about Micah a man who had followed behind Mary and Joseph and along his way he was given a blanket and loaf of bread of which he used to give to them. Anyhow after the story I played the CD from the book and gave them their Christmas Blankets. After that we watched a video on the nativity and closed with a prayer. Dorian went right to bed and Cali stayed up till 11:30. Next morning we got up and finished working on the playroom for the kids and then we opened our stockings.
After all the wonderful toys and surprises the best one was yet to come.
Dorian went with Ry a few weeks ago to give a family food for Christmas. Ry gave him the choice to get this toy or give someone else Christmas. Dorian choose to give someone else Christmas. Ryan's heart melted and decided to get him the toy anyway. So Christmas morning after he opened everything I asked him to get the bag by the fireplace to put the trash in. Under the bag wrapped in a sheet was the STIcK TOGEther TRANSFORMER. He said hey guys there is one more. Oh its the stick together transformer. Guys look. Oh my gosh. Oh open it. He was so excited. Then he went downstairs where we showed them the kitchen I made for Cali and the couch we made for Dorian.
Having my parents here and spending Christmas at home was so special. I loved making new and having old traditions.

Home for the HOlidays-Cookies

2009-12-26T08:18:00.001-08:00

This year was our first Christmas at our home. I wanted to start the tradition of reading books and giving the kids something from that story. So this year I read them a book that we got last year from the Bowen's called The Queen of Christmas. In the book Anne Estelle sings carols, ice skates with Grandma, plays with cousins, and bakes cookies. So after the story I got them chef hats and Dorian got to wear the apron and they made sugar cookies with Grandma. Cali made snakes, I made a snowman, and Dorian made Mongo From Shrek.
It was lots of fun and the kids had a blast. Thanks, mom and Dad for those fun memories.

Yes I am on one

2009-12-14T13:31:00.000-08:00

Two family income:
I was raised that a man provides and supports his family and if a woman wants to works its extra money. She can spend it on whatever she want.
Obviously there are times a family needs help so having that extra income is nice. So do you consider it "our money" and if so when one of you buys something lets say a gift for the other is it considered from the both of you? Or do you pick and choose what you bought and paid for.
Well here is my gripe. Every year Ry finds it so hard to buy me a gift because I am picky that we have decided not to get gifts. I am an awesome gift giver by the way.
Anyhow, so this year I thought it would be fun to buy stocking stuffers for eachother.Something simple. Again Ry has found it difficult. I have even told friends that i know he would ask some ideas. Mostly I just care about the thought process in it. So he is complaining about it and my friend gives him an idea and he says I Bought her a laptop anyways thats her gift.
So now we are back to the begining. I have been working a lot this year and everytime I make money I have put it towards paying debt and savings. I put it towards the basement project as well as the Fun Fund for next year. If I don't work then I get griped out for not contributing and it I do work I don't get appreciated or recognized for contributing. Okay so back to the computer. I sat in line at 1:30am to get the computer and used the funds that I contributed to pay for this.
So did he buy me the computer of did I or did we both by it and can Ry count that as his gift to me?
So then Ryan's ski trip in January is his gift. since I put funds in for that. Merry Christmas.
And another thing when I "vacation" to California I make money when Ry "vacations" he spends money.

Memory Funk

2009-12-14T06:35:00.000-08:00

My friend Rebecca always inspires me with her blogs. I either laugh, cry or get worked up wanting to stand by her and Fight..Well today she wrote a blog about a Glimpse of her former self
http://jonsrebecca.blogspot.com/2009/12/glimpses-of-former-me.html and here is my response.
I too ask myself where did I go? I never made menus or sewed but I was different. I have to say there are soo many things I love about myself now that I would never change...but some things I still long for.
I was super organized. I never liked hoarding things,everything had a place. My closet was organized by color and by style. My bed was made everyday and my refrigerator was organzied. I still do a little organizing but keep it to four times a year. I do a winter clean out, spring clean out, summer and fall clean out. I still love to rearrange my room like every other day. Some how though day to day pick up and paper organization went right out the window. Now I just search for friends closets or rooms I can organize.
I was ACTive. I went to the park and jogged the trails with my dog. I burned lots of calories. I loved going out dancing. I was up for anything. Wanna go on a hike and then just sit and talk..that was me. Wanna jump off a bridge just to see if you could..sure. Wanna go camping and have racoons try to get in your tent..sure just point me to the port a potties. (Notice my Southern slurring of words coming back.wanna) Now it aches me to even think of camping outdoors. WHy would I endanger my life and jump off something to prove a point. I am 30lbs over weight. Fear of what? Feeling better.. Maybe fear of that image consuming me. I was confident but with that came many challenges that I don't want to experience now.

I took time Getting Ready. I would spend about two hours getting ready. I would sit on the floor music playing doing my makeup, hair then change outfits like ten times. I walked out and got attention. MOst of all I felt pretty. NOw I shower at night, let my hair airdry, use the curls from sleepy head and make a style. Mascara goes on my thin sparse eyelashes which fall, and I don't think I own lipstick.
I feel like I am a fat girl trapped in an average girl body. Its like that show Cougar Town she pinches things on her body and says where the hell did that come from.
I said what I meant. Now with this one I think I have been a little refined. If you were acting stupid, I just told you. If you were bothering me, I just told you. Now I hold it in and explode but still tell you or I find better words. Although if you are customer service I usually revert back to my old ways.
NOw I am cautious which I find to be a good thing. I listen to others (sometimes, I just tune out) I know people's intentions, I mentor, I love serving, I cook and plan ahead, I budget, teach my kids, I have more girlfiriends that I like, I am using my talents, Imake better choices, I read my scriptures, I love children for a few hours, I know who I am and what I need to do.
I just need to get my groove back. How Alma got her groove back in theaters this spring.

Cold WEather = Play outside its for your benefit

2009-12-10T06:27:00.000-08:00

Well lets see Yesterday 20 degrees feels like 5degrees.

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Well Yesterday Dorian comes home from school and tells me they had to go outside for recess. Crazy I know. so I called the school to ask who decided to have the kids play outside? WEll actually I asked what Idiot decided to have the kids outside. I asked would you put your pets out in this...no...well why in the Hell would you have your kids.

Response: Well Mrs Tait its just that its the first big chill of the season and we usually don't get this till February and people just aren't' use to it.
Alma: Do you have any idea how cold it was yesterday.
Response: Yes I stood out there for all the lunch recess
Alma: WEll that was smart.
Response" THat is why we tell the parents to bundle up their kids. WE didn't have any frost bite on the kids.
Alma: (About to go East Coast on him) WIth all the colds and flu going around is it really good to have the kids in warm, cold, then warm temperatures?
Response: ITs my policy and parents will support me in this. When I announced this in the gym to the parents the crowd applauded me for having the kids outside and being active.
Alma: I am all great for exercise but having kids out in this weather is more of a safety issue
Response: We take safety precautions we only allow them 8-12 minutes of recess.
ALma: I am sure parents don't want their kids out in this
Response: MOre parents will stand by me and would call me if I didn't send them outside for exercise.
Alma: Those parents are probably ones with fat kids who play video games all day.
Response: Sorry to hear all of this just write a note and have Dorian not go outside
Alma: Sorry to hear you feel like this
Hang Up
Alma called superintendent
Response: 4 other Elementary Schools didn't have their kids out today and it not his policy it a district policy that if it gets below a certain wind chill factor the kids DO NOT go outside. WE all need to be on the same page. I will take care of this matter.

Now don't get me wrong I believe our principal works hard and has to deal with all sorts of matters but really let have the kids outside so that they will get exercise. don't they have Gym? I got a call cause Dorian was late from the SaFety line wondering where he was. Where was mine safety call when my child got placed outside in weather like that?
Please be aware of this and send a note for your child or complain. If you feel its not to cold well then disregard this.

Scrouge, Grinch ....that's what they call me.

2009-12-09T21:21:00.000-08:00

Yes I differ than most on telling kids about Santa Claus. I tell my kids that yes that is Santa but he doesn't buy you the gifts or come down the chimney. Wish stealer, believe smasher....Why do such a thing you ask? Well it all began 29 years ago Christmas Eve. I sat at the top of the stairs peeking through the stair rails and I watched my mother put an orange in my stocking. I didn't cry that there wasn't a Santa. I did confront my mother and from then on I tried many things to catch my mother once again. She said she was just looking to see what Santa brought me. Over the years I slept right by the tree to catch her put presents under it, I hid all the oranges so that when I didn't get one I could say " Gotcha" but to say the least I never caught her. I always knew my parents bought me the gifts and for me knowing that was a huge blessing. Even as a young child I had such an appreciation for the gifts they bought me, not because I got to unwrap the presents but because I knew what ever I opened my parents sacraficed to get that for me. And that is what put a smile on my face. I can remember a Christmas where I got a cabbage patch kid, I knew it was a fake but I smiled with joy cause i couldn't hurt their feelings and knew that they couldn't afford a real one. I also can remember living on Katherine St. and I could tell my mom was sad she couldn't give me much, She apologized before we opened the presents, but she didn't have to. That box of crayons and coloring books were the best for me. I can't imagine what a parent must feel like if a kid were to complain about a present they got from Santa or from them.

Ry said that I am missing the whole point that its about believing and the joy that santa read your mind and got you what you wanted or in some cases things you didn't ask for but were awesome. Just cause it came from Santa it was amazing. HE found out at 8-9 there wasn't a Santa.
I laughed and said sorry you are a slow learner. I was 3 when I understood the whole thing. Either way I just want my kids to always be appreciative for what they are given, I want them to know that behind that gift,, sacrafice and love were put into it just as our Greatest gift. Jesus Christ.

Spooky Day!!!

2009-10-28T09:34:00.000-07:00

We went to Trunk or Treat with the kids. Dorian did have a head to his costume but he lost it already so I painted his face with Green eye shadow and spiked his hair. Cali isn't cooperating so I will get more this weekend.

Capt. Tait

2009-10-22T20:33:00.000-07:00

RAce # 4

Race #3

Race # 2

Race #1

Dorian had his first Raingutter Regatta Race for Scouts. When we sat down to work on it he lost the parts with in the first ten minutes. After searching for them he began his adventure. Ryan helped him with the sanding. I helped his with painting. I got his spray paint since that seemed way easier than having him paint it. Two sprays and he was done. Then another coat and sealer. I had him trace skull bones and cut out a stencil so he could spray and put in on his sail. It came out a little funny but you get the idea. Before we left he said " I am going to win mom, I am a winner....(pause) MOm am I going to win?" I said honey probably not ...get use to it. Just have fun. I am sure there are some agro sailers out there.

Well Foot In MY MOUTH cause Dorian won every race. Not only did he win he Smoked Them. Here are some pics...notice how far ahead he is.

I am Proud.

Dorian's baptism

2009-10-22T20:17:00.000-07:00

Okay so I haven't blogged in forever and so much stuff happened. Well Dorian got baptized. And no I didn't take pictures but my sis n law did. I got sick the night before everyone came so I was not in the mood to take pictures. Here is a link to her blog that has baptism pics. http://tmtrjsundbergfamily.blogspot.com/2009/09/dorains-baptism.html
This is what I planned to say to everyone so listen up.
I just want to thank all those who sacrafied so much with Dorian's baptism. For all the help with the basement: late nights, supplies, dump runs, tools, furniture, funding and talents.
For all the help with the basptism: talks, prayers, confirmation, the support, yummy cupcakes, flyers, songs & music, piano man and ward members & family.
For all the help with the lunch:all the yummy food, all the kids running around and pushing each other down the hill, it made for a fun time.
Thank you to family& friends who traveled near and far to show their support and love.
Although Dorian did swim in the baptismal font he truly was so excited about getting baptized. I know our Father in Heaven is so proud of him. He knows his heart and what a sweet heart he has. Under all the transformer transformations and funny noises he has the ability to love unconditionally. Dorian sends his love to all and thanks again for being a part of this special day.

THey say its your birthday!!!

2009-08-09T15:54:00.000-07:00

"the big girl hair style"

Families are Forever

2009-06-14T17:39:00.000-07:00

Last week I got to visit my brother and his family. They were getting sealed and it was such a beautiful experience. I am so happy for them. Here are a few pics right after the temple. Not a lot of pics cause we were hungry!!!! But his kids are adorable.

Cali & Rachel

2009-05-28T15:58:00.000-07:00

bucketheads

cali trying to kiss rach

sitting back relaxing

i spiked her orange

So if anyone has ever seen these two together you know how cute they can be. It makes me wish I had a little sister for Cali. They had fun being squirted with water and playing outside.

Easter Visit

2009-04-14T17:44:00.001-07:00

Look at Jordy's tongue..Isn't it cute

Bed Head!

Cali trying to feed her doggie.eFor the past few weeks we got lots of visits. LIndy & the girls & Cherie came out for Cherie's spring break then they went to Ohio to visits Cherie's family. On Saturday Mark and Jen came down adn we all went to the zoo. Sunday we had a Easter Egg hunt and colored Eggs. Tuesday we went to the Magic House which was so much fun. Then they left. Then Papa got to visit and helped Ry with some projects. ...Ding Dong the Door bell rang and the kids got a special package from my mom for EAster. Dorian's eyes lit up when he saw a dinosaur. Mine did the same when I saw I didn't have to get it for him. Cali then screamed as she saw a doggie. Here are some pics from their visit.

I just want to say Thanks a bunch to all who came. I am very blessed to have family from all over who love us and help us in so many ways. We honestly couldn't get by with out you all. I hope that some day I can help my children as I have been helped. Thanks and lve you all.

Warm Weather Wiggles

2009-03-10T14:16:00.001-07:00

Dorian the stegosaurus minus the spikes

who needs toys when a old box will do

Cali just relaxing eating a sucker

Too Cool for School

Dorian spying on the neighbors

It has been so great with this warm weather. The kids are able to get all their wiggles out. HEre are a few pics of them playing outside with eachother. Even though they are pretty far apart in age they play very well together. Dorian constantly stops from acting like what ever super hero he is and gives kisses to Cali.

Smokey Mountains

2009-03-04T20:03:00.000-08:00

Dorian after the Dino ADventure

This past weekend we went to the Smokey Mountains. We were so excited to get the chance to spend some time together. Ryan is always working(of which we are very grateful that he has work) and we hardly get to see him. Since we had points left on our TS we thought we should just use it and go somewhere we both haven't been. So we headed to the mountains. The first day we just got settled in and crashed,then off to the Dinosaur Mu seum which was more like a five car garage. Cali and I sat in the truck and let Dorian and Ry venture the tourist scam. Dorian as excited as he was came out in tears. We got a child in tears and the owners of this money trap got Cha ching. After that we said no to any tourist attractions. The jacuzzi freed up alot of time and we ate yummy ribs. Then we headed to GAtlinburg in the mountains. WE walked around and took the scenic route. Cali would not let go of the snow even when it was freezing. Ryan and D went up the skylift...He was not afraid of going way up but afraid of plastic dinosaurs..Go figure. We had fun and mostly we were together.

SNOW BUNNY

2009-02-06T20:00:00.000-08:00

a Few Sundays ago it snowed while we were at church. When we got home Cali got out of the Car and was so excited to play in the snow. She then came in the house crying cause she couldn't feel her hands.

Better Late Than Never..Christmas Pics

2009-01-16T17:47:00.000-08:00

We got bored on the way home so Rylin made faces for me

Ry Ry loving her nana

Jordy waiting for nana to come up so she could open presents. Ty had to hold her back.

Cali christmas morning

Jordy eating dirt

Jordy and Dorian making a dirt snowman

Jordy climbing the fence..or thinking how to

I can't resist Lindy's butt

I told Dorian to put his arm around Rylin...in front of her works too

Gobble Gobble

2008-11-30T15:29:00.003-08:00

Yummy Food

Cranberry Apple Brie

Ry and Cali

Cali trying to play peek a boo with my dad. Notice my dad's tight grip on Cali

Cali giving loves to the croc

Cali giving my dad loves

cali trying to walk the dogs, and the dogs looking for help

So my parents came out for Thanksgiving and we had lots of fun. It was my parents first time seeing Cali so it was extra special. She loved giving my dad lots of kisses and hugs and loved playing with or trying to walk the dogs. My mom got to play lots of games with the kids which they loved. Wednesday we got to visit the zoo. Dorian had my dad figured out. PIck out a toy and then ask my dad for money. My mom got the kids each a penguin stuff animal which actually smelled like fish. Dorian also got some squish sharks that ended up stuck on our ceiling. We got to see some fighting bears, odd birds, and icky creepy reptiles. Cali was brave and kissed a croc on his nose.

On thanksgiving day my mom made the turkey and I made: greanbeans with almonds, mashed potatoes, apples,pears & squash w/ cinnamon, apple cranberry brie dip and stuffing. Oh also I made a pumpkin cobbler. Yah it was goood. Then saddly my parents left Friday morning but not after they made their famous special breakfast.

All in all we had a great time and I was glad they came to visit. Here are a few pics from their visit.

Playgroup

2008-10-27T11:08:00.000-07:00

Pumpkin Patch w/ the Brazier bunch

2008-10-12T08:52:00.000-07:00

Saturday we went to the PUmpkin Patch w/ the Braziers. UPon arriving we noticed people smoking and tossing their cigarette buds by the hay..hmm..safe enough right. First Dorian, Lydia and Cali got to ride a pony. Lydia totally hammed it up when she passed me. Dorian was totally excited and CAli was excited she could see Dorian riding a poney. Then we all ventured to visit SEAWEED. He is a sea creature who eats up children for only $2.00 and then releases them from his rear. After Dorian was excreted out a few times the girls pretended to be pumpkins. Then Ry wanted to buy a huge pumpkin and carve faces on each side...no..!!! So he toted the girls around in a pumpkin cart searching for a pumpkin. All in all we had a fun time. We then got Italian Gelatos (which were probably Greek first) but they were soo yummy and we watched a movie. Thanks Braziers for a fun night.

Pumpkin Patch

2008-10-07T19:24:00.000-07:00

Today after

our Hike we took the kids over to the Pumpkin Patch...on our way it began to rain and rain, so there aren't many pics. I tried covering the camera with a bag but it didn't do so well..The kids still had fun. Cali ate some dirt and played in the mud water while Dorian loved going through the maze. WE each picked a small pumpkin and headed home. Can't wait to go back so we can see the whole place.

Anniversary 3 mile HIke

2008-10-07T18:33:00.001-07:00

Ry and I went on a Hike this year to celebrate our Anniversary. While on the hike we came to the agreement that hiking is pretty similar to marriage....it is going to be rough and tiring at times but if you have a little patience and work hard, it is so worth it. Once we got past the rocky parts going up hill, the view was so beautiful. Here are a few pics of our hike.

B-day Dorian

2008-09-26T14:14:00.000-07:00

A few weeks ago was Dorian's birthday. We picked him up from School Early and took him to Dave and Busters. We had lunch and played games. With all his Tickets he got two yo yos, sour roll, light fan that says Go Cardinals, frisbees, slinky hand thing, and the lady gave a dog and Cali a bear. Then Ryan lost Cali..I was mad..Then he came home and opened his presents. He got a leap frog reader w/books from Nana. TT gave him a Batman back pack. He also got back to school clothes from Nana. We got him a laser light 2.00 (SCORE) He also got a gift card to Barnes and Nobles from GG so he can buy books. He loves reading now.. He says I am WInner, I can read. He loved his cake and so did Cali..She even licked the plate clean.

just 4 laughs

2008-09-20T09:21:00.001-07:00

ABC's easy as 123

2008-09-15T17:13:00.001-07:00

I got tagged by Lorena. now I tag Lindy and Michelle
A to Z Tag
A= Attached or Single: Attached (Ball and Chain)
B= Best Friend: Ry loves this question
C= Cake or Pie: pie
D= Day of Choice: Saturday
E= Essential Item: tweezer
F= Flavor of Icecream: CHOCOLATE
G= Gummy Bears or Worms: BEARS
H= Hometown: Olympia
I= Indulgence: chocolate and orange juice *anything sweet and bitter
J= January or July: July
K= Kids: D&C
L= Last movie I saw at a theater: House Bunny
M= Musician:
N= Number of Siblings: 3 bros (yes I am the only girl and baby)
O= Oranges or Apples: oranges
P= Phobias or Fears: I am dealing with my fear now...WEIGHT
Q= Quote: Don't let your mind be a dumping ground for other people's garbage
R= Reason to Smile: when Cali jibbers
S= Season: fall... I LOVE FALL..reminds me of high school football games
T= Tag: LIndy & Michelle
U= Unknown fact: I actually use to be a B cup size...those were the days
V= vegetarian or oppressor of Animals: I actually think it would be healthy to be a vegetarian, but I couldn't give up chicken or fish.
W= Worst habit: never spending time with Ryan(he is blurting out my answer for me) I think it is leaving the bathroom door open
X= Xray or Ultrasound: ultrasound
Y= Your favorite food: seafood
Z= Zodiac sign: cancer(moody,creative,picky)

Cardinal Cali

2008-09-15T17:13:00.000-07:00

I was going through some of Cali's outfits and found her Cardinal Outfit..it is still big on her but she looked so dang cute I couldn't help myself. She thought playing peek a boo was so hilarious...

I Got TAGGED

2008-08-29T11:38:00.000-07:00

So I got tagged. I have to go around and post pictures , no cleaning just taking pics now so people can feel better about their own messes at home and so they don't feel bad that they are spending so much time onthe computer blogging. So here are messes and free time at waste. I TAG
MICHELE & TRISH.

1.Frig

2.Closet(Yes I have no clothes..they are all Ryan)

3.Laundry Room(i do not like to put clothes away)

4.Toilet(Dorian left a present but I didn't want to photograph that)

5.My favorite Room(I love this room cause no one goes in it and I don't have to clean it)
6. What my kids are doing right now.(Cali making a mess on the sofa & Dorian now pulling Cali off the sofa and attacking his sister)

7. Kitchen sink(Yes its gross..I don't feel like cleaning)
8.Favorite pair of shoes(They give me height with out the angle of being on heels)
9.SElf portrait( ......)
10. Dream Vacation( Greece, Italy)

OUr little Peanut

2008-08-22T12:28:00.000-07:00

Today cAli went in for her check up. When we arrived there was a little girl in for her checkup. They put us right next to eachother. Cali sat there and let the nurse take all her measurements. Then the doctor came in and he had her do a few test, grasp, talking, walking, etc. She smiled and said Hi to him. He would draw on the paper, she would copy him. He gave us her info w/ percentiles.
Wt. 18 lbs 10%
Ht. 29 1/2" 50%
Head 44 25%
He said you have a petite little girl, average ht, and with a cute head. HE also said you can go ahead and give her lots of food...I said she eats like crazy..
Now, in the other room, SCREaMING!!!! NO! NO!NO!
Doc says: Okay now your girl is in the 90% in wt so you need to watch her weight. She is average in height and her head is okay..

Total opposites!! Although Cali did not like getting shots, she grabbed Lamby and sucked her fingers ..

All American Dorian

2008-08-18T19:21:00.000-07:00

Dorian building his "tree house"

Dorian making the family "fruit soup"

Dorian's first day of school. He is sporting his new Batman backpack that his TT gave him. He is also wearing a striped shirt and His hair is styled with gel inspired by his Uncle Tyler and he rockin his new shoes his Captain Sir (aka mom) bought him.

Dorian's New Friend

2008-08-11T17:09:00.000-07:00

Dorian found a new friend today.

He brought him inside the house and built a city for him. He then had the frog pretend it was godzilla and destroy the city. He also put it in our tree and told it to go to the bathroom. He put it on my head and on my leg.Then he turned around and it disappeared. One thing, this frog makes such loud sounds it will be interesting trying to find it tonight.

Going back to Cali, Cali, Cali

2008-08-07T13:43:00.001-07:00

For the last two weeks I have been in Cali. I had such a blast and I wasn't ready to leave. We went bowling, hung out, Sea World 2 times, Beach, swimming and a game of Hand and Foot. (which would have been more enjoyable except Tiffy broke one of the rules :-) Oh and there was a family reunion too. I spent time with friends and family, worked, and I got alot of down time, which was a must. Here are a few pics from Cali. check out melinda's blog for Sea World Pics

Water Fight

Poor Jordy got caught in the crossfire.

Hanging out in the backyard

Cali on the slide. Dorian caught a lizard.

At the bowling alley..babies munching with Grandpa.

Cali at the beach. Her first time in the water. Melinda did such a great such catching that moment.

Remember the time....

2008-07-14T18:59:00.001-07:00

1. As a comment on my blog, leave one memory that you and I had together. It doesn't matter if you knew me a little or a lot, anything you remember!2. Next, re-post these instructions on your blog and see how many people leave a memory about you. It's actually pretty funny to see the responses. If you leave a memory about me, I'll assume you're playing the game and I'll come to your blog and leave one about you!reminisce away...

One little speckled frog

2008-07-10T12:13:00.000-07:00

Cherie sent Cali this adorable bathing suit. All three girls have matching ones. I can't wait to see them all together at the beach sporting their polka dot bikinis. Thanks Nana!!

Fourth of July

2008-07-08T15:30:00.000-07:00

For fourth of July Mark & Jen were visiting and went to the Park and watched FireWorks.

We actually got to see FireWorks up close, not like years ago when we drove up to skyline and invisioned the fireworks being shot up right to us, instead we get to see specs of light from the city...good going cher..lol.. The fireworks at the park were so pretty. I loved them. Cali didn't even flinch at the loud fireworks which was so suprising.

Sienna had fun playing at the park. She was being a dare devil and decided toclimb on this catepillar and went to the very top. Jen and I were paranoid moms waiting to catch her if she fell. Johnny boy and Cali again got paired together while swinging. Last time they were here they went for a walk in the stroller together. We do not have a double stroller either.. so they got buckled in together. They are the siamese cousins.

WE had lots of fun and I enjoyed our visit with Mark and Jen.

Cali eating Dirt

2008-06-16T19:42:00.001-07:00

Cali watching Dorian stir around the dirt
Cali's cute dirty bum

Cali deciding if she likes it
Yep she likes dirt

Cali loves to be outside with Dorian and while she outside she decided to try some dirt. Why does dirt look so apetizing to children?

Cali's Playmate

2008-05-13T11:40:00.000-07:00

My bff Teresa came to visit last week. She has 3 children, one who is a week older than Cali. Her name is Georgia and she is so cute. Cali loved having her friend around. Everytime she would get up from a nap she would look around and try to find her. IT was so much fun to watch them together. Georgia is 21lbs and Cali is 15..it reminded me of Khloe and Kourtney from the Kardashians. Cali is smaller but she enjoyed bullying Georgia around. She would climb over her and take her toys..

Toothless Dorian

2008-04-22T19:34:00.000-07:00

Today Dorian lost his tooth at school. His teacher said he lost it at lunch and was a little upset but got over it quick. When he got home he showed us his tooth and he put it under his pillow...hmmm.. will the tooth fairy come?

Waiting for her big Brother....

2008-04-11T14:18:00.001-07:00

If Cali isn't taking her afternoon nap she loves to wait for Dorian to come home. She is like a little puppy waiting for its master to come home. She gets so excited banging on the window, then when she gets bored she eats the window ledge...Today she was so excited she saw Dorian and Dorian was excited to see her, he came to the window and gave her a kiss, the best part is that their hands matched up on the window..yes I got a little teary eyed. They love eachother so much.

UH OH SPAGHETTI 'O' S

2008-04-11T14:18:00.000-07:00

Cali is venturing into the world of solids. She loves her spaghetti Os with meatballs, bananas,eggs, and deli meat. If you are eating it..she wants it. And since her poo already smells like a grown mans' .. eating solids hasn't made a difference.

Cali update

2008-03-28T10:26:00.001-07:00

I can't believe Cali is almost 8 months. She is on the go and into everything. ..Yes that is a hair in her mouth..I got it before she ate it...Here are some pics of Cali being Cali...

Tag: I am it...

2008-03-28T10:26:00.000-07:00

Melinda TAgged me. I am suppose to tell why and how I came up with my children's names.
Dorian Duke..It was a collaboration. I wanted two names: Darian but they thought it was a black name and Cade, but ryan was working with cars and Cade was an auction that sucked so he didn't want that name. So we were watching the movie In God's Hands with Shane Dorian( who is so hot) and Spencer said how about Dorian. So ta da..Dorian is named after a surfer.. Duke comes from Grandpa Duke, which is also Ryan's middle name.
Cali well is quite obvious,...Cali.. California...Ryan's favorite place.. and her middle name Trise is what I call my bff Teresa, just short for Teresa.
I do have to say with Cali I broke the mold. Cause all the grand kid's name end in "n"
Doria n
Ryli n
JOrdy n
Clayto n

And my name Alma Linda means my beautiful soul or my dear soul in Spanish..I am not named after TBOM. And its pronouced AL MA not ALL ma...

Snow Day

2008-03-04T08:18:00.002-08:00

Dorian throwing snow at me...Dorian throwing himself into the snow...

Going Back to Cali...Cali..Cali..

2008-03-04T08:18:00.001-08:00

I am coming to California. Yeah (cross fingers that there is warm weather) I have a photography job on the 13th and I will be staying till the 19th. I can not wait. We have a disneyland day planned and I am so excited to take the kids. I can't wait to hear Jordy's jiber jabb, Dorian and Rylin's laughter as they play together and Cali's little pitter patter on the floor.
Maybe Dorian will learn to speak the same language as everyone else. Cause since we moved to missouri, he learned a different language ( According to Sara Tolley). I am looking forward to a fun trip.

M-I-S-S-O-U-R-I

2008-03-04T08:18:00.000-08:00

THere was no snow an hour ago.

With all the recent weather changes I finally figured out why are beloved state is called missouri

M-mild winds
I-ice
S-snow
S-sunshine
O-overcast
U-ultraviolet rays
R-rain
I-isolated showers

This all takes place in a 7 day spand...

Cali Bra!

2008-02-19T15:01:00.001-08:00

Ryan thinks he is so cute calling her cali bra...he's a dork, but he makes cute kids.

Big Cedar

2008-02-19T15:01:00.000-08:00

Ryan looking stupid, just as stupid as the idea to go to the fish hatchery in the middle of winter.

Dorian freezing at the fish hatchery.

Branson's Sunset.This is beautiful sunset we got to see on our way back from the fish hatchery.
After we left the hatchery, we headed to the bass pro shop and in the shopping center they have fountains that move to music. We were standing at the top and we could feel the heat from the flames.

ON Tuesday we woke up to our Winter wonderland. THis is the view from the balcony. Pretty awesome.

We had the opportunity to go to Branson this weekend(thanks to Mitch and Trish) and we had lots of fun. The room was awesome and view was amazing. WE needed a little vacate and this was the perfect weekend. WHen we first got there Dorian walked in and says this is not a normal room mom, there is fish on the wall and fish on the chairs. HE called it the camping room. ALthough I don't think camping is sleeping on the pull out with the gas fireplace warming your toes while you watch a movie, but he loved it.

Dorian' s visit to the Dentist

2008-02-13T20:06:00.000-08:00

Dorian had his first visit to the dentist. He got to touch everything and he then they gave him a bag full of tools from the office. He came in and started singing "Shiny teeth and me"..

Cali trying To CrAwl

2008-01-18T08:15:00.002-08:00

Cali so wants to crawl, she arches up like a cat, then looks at her legs and moves. Then she either face plants or rolls over. Here are some of her gracious attempts.

Love BUg

2008-01-18T08:15:00.001-08:00

Just for TT: Super Hero Dorian?

2008-01-18T08:15:00.000-08:00

He has the speed of Lighting McQueen(feet)
The strength of a Power Ranger
The strike and bite of a shark(gloves)
Laser beam eyes of Cyclops X-Men (sunglasses)
And the redneck look of Nascar (lighting mcqueen nascar hat)
What kind of super hero would you call him?

Family time at the Getty Villa

2008-01-04T19:47:00.000-08:00

Ry Ry at the Little Gym

2007-12-27T13:22:00.001-08:00

My Jordy

2007-12-27T13:14:00.000-08:00

Christmas Time in the 951

2007-12-27T11:53:00.000-08:00

Ry Ry our fashion Diva

Dorian got bike googles from uncle ty so he started air swimming with them

Ryan made up a sign for his name and taught it to Jordy. This is how it came out,hans over the eyes. Dorian as Darth Helmet Dorian and his cars jammies and slippers

Cali & Her Daddy

2007-12-11T07:16:00.001-08:00

Cali Girl

2007-12-11T07:16:00.000-08:00

Here are some new pics of Cali...

Where is thumbkin?

2007-11-20T06:42:00.001-08:00

We always love when Dorian sings us a song mainly because he can botch up words like none other. We know he tries so hard but the words come out so funny. YEsterday for FHE he picked the song to sing, Where is Thumbkin? THis is how the song went: WHere is tumkin, where is tumkin, here I am, Here I am, How are you the GAY sir, very well da thank you, run away. Run a way.

Dorian's Candy

2007-11-01T09:16:00.001-07:00

Ryan was in charge of getting candy for Halloween. Since I asked him to pick some up at the last minute, we got stuck with gummy candy. There's a variety of skeletons and frankenstiens gummy candy and mind you they don't taste great or smell good. So Dorian opened one and thought they were stickers and I found him doing this.

Dorian's Halloween Party

2007-11-01T09:16:00.000-07:00

Dorian had a class party yesterday. They started out with a parade, where they visited classrooms around the school. Then they came back and had a yummy snack. Oh course Dorian likes to make the caprisuns explode by blowing air into them...He made a mess but cleaned it up. Then they had a relay race where they would scope up candy corn and transfer to another bowl. Dorian did so good although he was tempted to eat the candy corn while running. After the race they made candy bags for trick or treating. He was so excited we where there. When I left he gave me a big hug and kiss and told everyone he loved me. But I think he loves showing his sissy Cali off more.

2007-10-26T10:55:00.005-07:00

Arrrggghh.... Jordy! This is why Ryan calls Jordy a pirate and makes the sound. Even though she couldn't see she still was smiley..We love her..

2007-10-26T10:55:00.004-07:00

I called out for Dorian and got no response, so I got up to go and look for him. I found him with the garage door open in his camping chair, eating popcorn while watching the rain. I was so cute. He made the popcorn by himself.

Rylin in the morning

2007-10-26T10:55:00.003-07:00

Everytime I get home sick I look at this pic at it makes me smile.

Carving Pumpkins

2007-10-26T10:55:00.001-07:00

Dorian couldn't wait till Ry got home so they could carve pumpkins. Well Dorian loves Spongebob so I thought I would find a template for it, but Dorian insisted that "jack 'no' lanterns" only have triangle eyes with a triangle nose and a smile with two teeth.

Cali & Daddy

2007-10-26T10:55:00.000-07:00